Dearest Laine, I'm nearly double your age today. Since I obviously have more years ahead of you, I've gone through more things- sometimes I succeed and often I fail. Like any Ate (older sister), I want to spare you from all the pains and give you the best kept secrets I learned along the way. So here it goes... Never ever worry about how thin or fat you are. It doesn't matter. What matters is how big you're heart is and how level-headed you are. Never ever chase anything or anyone other than your heart. As long as you remain true to it, it will point you to the right direction. Love whatever it is you are doing and it will love you back. But, before anything else, love yourself first. And always think, no BELIEVE that you're great. It makes a whole world of difference- whatever it is you choose to do. However, even if you choose to simply bum around, I hope that you find The One, The One Who Knows Your Heart or that He finds You. He'll teach you to simply be who you are. Then, the doing part will be a lot easier. Then again, know that sometimes it's ok not to care about what other people think. What's more important is what you think, what you feel and how everything sits with you. So, feel free to take this advice, dump it in the dumpster or just choose which ones work for you. You have the free hand. Know that in life you always have a choice, dearest sister.
I know, she can be very honest but she’s also very patient.
She did not give up on me though it took me a year to jumpstart a project she can successfully accomplish in a month. I don’t
know how in the world I could ever come close to her standards. But today, I am definite I have!
What a pleasant birthday surprise!
Persistence is key
Currently, I’m blogging from a hotel in Kuala Lumpur (KL). I arrived past midnight expecting an airport transfer. But the road to getting it wasn't easy. As expected, I booked last minute- 48 hours
before the flight. I specifically asked for transfer when
I confirmed the booking and I also e-mailed the hotel twice just to be sure. When
I didn’t get a response after a day, I called. Guess what? They refused to accommodate my
request because I had to inform them 48 hours before the
scheduled check-in not 48 hours before I land on the airport ( didn't check the fine print). So, after a long and fruitless negotiation with the desk
officer, I hung up on her. Knowing that her shift will end around 5pm, I called again past that time hoping that I can get to talk the manager this time (or just a more sensible person). However, after spending
precious pesos on an international call, I got another no. My travel buddy insisted that I let it slide.
We could just get a taxi. So, before I boarded the plane I called again just to
get the address for the cab but I was told that the hotel will be sending someone to pick us up. Hooray! Dogged persistence does pay off.
Push it!
I work in “lala land”. That means I don’t do overtime (only until
6.30pm if I really have to). Office politics is unheard of where I come from. It’s impossible in my world since we work
with different colleagues daily and there's no ladder to climb. Since people are not after any position or promotion, the work atmosphere is generally relaxed. To
top it off, I may get off work
anytime I want to (not that I do that often). I just need to inform people- no slips or application of leave whatsoever. There's a reason why I’m telling you all this- to emphasize the point that I’m not used to working my butt-off like corporate people. We
literally just play at work. Then, I have to collaborate with a mentor who hails from
a let’s-get-things-done-even-if-it’s-out-of this-world environment and expects
me to move mountains.
For a year, I've been telling her that I'm trailing behind her but I'll get it soon enough. Today, I'm happy to report that I nailed it!
You see, I am in KL so I could redeem a shopping voucher
(not that I care anything about shopping). I won it. The thing is, I failed to read the fine print
again. I could only use it at the international airport of which I don’t have a
pass since I came in via the low cost terminal. I checked with the information
personnel- she said I can only use it for chocolates and perfume. My sister (my travel companion couldn’t contain her laughter- she
knows I don’t like perfume and I need every inch of my 15kg luggage to pack in all the sweets if I am to use up the gift certificates). But, after a
recent win (getting the airport transfer), I’m not one who will easily give in. I still went ahead with my set plan (to get a
gadget using the vouchers) and asked around. Turned
out, I can use it in a electronic store. The only thing is, I didn’t like the selection
in the only store outside the terminal.
Again, my travel buddy coaxed me to just be done with it and just get
whatever is available. The old me would have followed her. But, I’ve seen how persistence works so I
called the number in my congratulatory letter until my fingers bleed and my sister
threatens to block me from her travelling companion list. Did I budge? Did I give up? Hell no! (pardon
the language but I couldn’t find anything more appropriate) I asked where the
office of the awarding committee is and despite all odds (my irritated sissy
& the more irritated information lady), we ventured into the city to find the
head honcho so I can talk to him. I learned from my mentor that if something
closes, find another way. Also, she emphasized that the personnels usually
can’t make decisions so go for the big guys, they’re usually more accommodating. To cut to the chase, after almost a day of seek-and-seek
and talk-to-any-english speaking-airport personnel, I got a pass to go inside the international airport terminal. Another yay for me!
The Win
I just got my birthday present- a fiercer, more determined
and wait for it……………. a more focused me!
Thank you dearest mentor and great job, self! You are getting better!
P.S. Truth be told, silence helped me a lot too but that’s
another long story.
