Tuesday, November 20, 2018

An Attempt at Vulnerability

"You always put on a brave front", said an old friend.  

"You know, it's ok to be vulnerable too.", she advised.

"I'm a softie. I can't even raise my voice even when I'm angry.", I countered.

"True but you're stubborn as hell.  Once you set your mind on something, you do everything to make it happen", she argued.

"So, what's wrong with that?", I asked.

"You don't need to do everything.  It's ok to ask for help.", she replied.

So, here's my attempt at vulnerability. Let me tell you a story...

image from parkinsinteriors.com

Three years ago, Special Achievers, an NGO for children and youth with disability I co-founded with colleagues Dana Salonga, Dane Raymundo and Pey Abdulwahid went to San Jose Elementary School, a public school in Rodriguez, Rizal and organized a fair for their SPED students in cooperation with Natimars Foundation. 

We brought in athletes, visual artists, clay artists, musicians and dancers in the school.  The students were allowed to try out the different arts and sports with the supervision of their parents and SPED teachers.
































* All photos by Cris Legaspi


It was truly a fun-filled day! 

After a month, we came back and talked to the parents about what they think of the program and they told us how their children’s self-confidence and independence improved as a result of the activity.

“My son baked clay artworks in the oven during the fair.  After your activity, he would use the oven toaster home.  Eventually, he even helped out in cooking.”, related a mom.

Given the positive response of the parents and the enthusiasm we saw in the kids’, we promised to go back and run the program for at least a year.

“We just need to work on our funding.”, we told them.

However, we've never gotten around to it.  

Other projects came in the way. We also got busy with our day jobs. (At the moment, Special Achievers is a passion project and the core team are all volunteers.)

This year marks the third year since we promised, “We shall return”.

This promise haunts us every now and then.  So, we told ourselves that we will make it happen this year- no matter what.

Special Achievers received some funding- but not enough for the logistics required for us to travel to far flung Rodriguez, Rizal.  So for now, we opted to run the program in a school in the metro.



We were able to organize a great team, half of which took a massive pay cut and half of which are volunteers- but all committed to make the project happen.

Special Achievers brought in professionals in dance, music, visual arts, creative theatre and chocolate making at San Antonio National High School, a public school in Makati to train select SPED students.


SPED teachers, volunteer occupational therapists and speech pathologists collaborate with and assist the mentors.

The parents were also consulted and given free training for four sessions prior to the start of the program.

We have enough to run the program for 12 sessions- but we need more funding to finish the documentary so this small program can reach the world.

We’ve stretched, negotiated, settled and practically did everything we could to make it happen- but it’s still not enough.

We’ve been told, "If you think you've done everything you could, then do something more,”

And so now, we ask you, “Can you please help us help children and youth with disability?"   


This is our something more.


                                          thesparkproject.com














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